Questions & answers
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Question:
- Do you have to have sex with everyone?
Answer:
- No, absolutely not! There are no requirements or expectations from the club. If you just want to look at other couples, listen to others and just be with your partner it's more than ok. It is you as a couple who decide how your evening will be or not be. No one else! Saying no is always a no and will be respected by all members.
Question:
- What is the type of people who visit Par i hjärter?
- We are like most people. Neither better nor worse. We are big and small, short and tall, young and older. We (our members) are, to name just a few examples, everyday nurse, accountant, policeman, salesman, job seekers, students, Associate, Store Manager, fireman, self-employed etc. Those who visit us have an interest in socializing with like minded people. Generally, most of them coming to us are very "open minded". It's not often that body shape, age or nationality puts up some barriers.
Question:
- We do not know if we fit. Are we "fancy" enough?
- All fits in! On Par i hjärter (if any place) you get to be yourself and who you are. As long as you respect others as they are, you become respected for who you are. There are no specific ideals to thrive or fit into our club.
Question:
- Do we have to be naked? What do we have on us?
Answer:
- You must never be naked if you do not want. It is always optional upstairs. No one should ever feel uncomfortable or forced to wear any special clothing there. But as soon as you wants to go down on the lower floor is the most underwear that apply. What counts as underwear is entirely up to each one. What you feel comfortable and sexy in is what you will wear. There is considerable variation in one evening in the choice of underwear.
Question:
- What are the ages of your members in general?
- We have members of all ages, all from the age of 18 and up. No matter how young or old you are, you are almost guaranteed that during an evening's other couples your age are at the club. There are more and more young couples who visit us.
Question:
- Where do we keep our things when we arrive to the club? Do we have to carry around a bag?
- Any couple can borrow a cabinet locking up their things in. You can then submit your key in the bar. You can collect and deliver your key as you want during the evening.
Question:
- What are the chances that you get a disease, like HIV, on your club?
- There is no greater danger on our club than in society in general. Probably the risk is actually much smaller. On Par i hjärter, there is always free condoms available in all rooms. Safe sex is strongly encouraged by us! We do not think there's any reason not to protect yourself if you have sex with someone other than your own partner. But of course it's all those involved in the sex act that sets the "rules".
Question:
- What if we meet someone we know?
- Obviously it can happen. But then you see it so that both of you are there and you have the same interest and you also share the same "secret".
Question:
- Can anyone can come into the club and watch?
- Not at all! Par i hjärter is a closed membership association for heterosexual couples and you can only become a member of the club if are a couple. The membership is personal for both the guy and the girl, and you also have to come up with the same partner each time. You must also show both membership card and your ID cards each time you visit the club.
Question:
- We have seen pictures on the net from other clubs and we do not want to risk being on camera?
- On Par i hjärter it is a total ban to include camera and / or cell phone. It is NOT allowed to take pictures or shoot at our meetings. So the risk is extremely small. There are, to our knowledge, no pictures from the meet online at all!
Question:
- Do we live too far away to visit your club?
- Par i hjärter has member couples from all over the country and even some international members. It's more a question of cost with travel, hotel, etc., than the distance itself.
Question:
- We are quite new in this "world". How does it work when we arrive to your club as a new couple?
- Already at the entrance, you will receive a warm care of our entrance host. You pay a membership fee and entrance fee. Then you will get a key and two towels. This key opens a locker in the locker room that you borrow for the evening. The towel is to be able to sit and lie on and to dry out when you've showered. Then you will be taken care of, of one of our host and hostess. They will guide you how everything works. Of course you have the chance to ask questions as well or of course anytime during the evening. No question is either too stupid to be!
Question:
- How do you make the payment at the bar when you have only underwear on you and not have any pockets to keep your money in?
- If you want, you can hang in your locker key in the bar and write down what you drink during the evening at his locker number. Then you pay the bill in the entrance before going home.
Question:
- Can we as a member couple bring someone who is curious to visit your club?
- Yes, an extra girl is ok to take with you. No extra guys.
Question:
- How frequently are you changing the water in the Jacuzzi?
- We replace the water in the Jacuzzi before every night we are open to ensure the Jacuzzi is always fresh. We also frequently change all the filters.